Day 6

I'm sharing my pregnancy secrets and things that get me thru after the baby is here.

While carrying the Baby Bump-

Prego Spanx- so worth the money
Tan in a Can- A little spray can make cellulite look good!
Bronzer or Bare Mineral Warmth- a little goes a long way- to give your face that healthy glow.
Black anything- It can hide everything and so take some of the pounds away.
Good pair of wedges- well- I have several. I like the height with the feel of a flat. It also saves my back.
Chocolate- Always keep a stash in my bag. Never know when you might need that pick me up.
A good mani and pedi- even though you can't see your feet- everyone else can.

When the Bump is gone-

Concealer- I have a tube everywhere- car, diaper bag and in the house. It makes those last night under eye bags disappear. Plus, my complexion after Maddie was crappy for the longest time.
Hair spray and a comb to tease- I lost a ton of hair after I had Maddie. Spray and comb-gave me that extra umph to my hair. Or this time, I might use the Bump-It. I so love some big hair.
Nursing pads- it doesn't only help in the bra, it helps with spit up, drool and smooth out make up when you do a bad job making it even.
Baby wipes- can't tell you how many nights- baby wipes are what I used to wash my face. Since I was too tried to go to the sink and wash, but refused to go to bed with make up on.
Yes, I still managed to wear make up- a little concealer, warmth and gloss are an everyday must.
Shower every day- I think since I've had Maddie I've only not showered maybe 3 days (not in row).

1 week today!!!!

Too cute- but Daniel just got extra excited this morning. He said, " One Week and we can meet our Boy" I think the idea of having a son has really sunk into his head.



I woke up this morning- thinking "God, I slept like crap. I wish I would re-do the night."It was a night of not being able to breathe.



Boys- Daniel and I are takers on advice. I'm still in frilly girl mode. Daniel is just now figuring out little girls and has to switch to learning little boys. You would think the boys would be easier for him, but it's not. He thinks JD will come out as starting QB football.

So, guys, here is your chance to spill out the advice.

8 Days

So- Maddie woke up from her nap today while I was watching the end of Private Practice. A lady on there was pushing and had a baby. Maddie was intrigued. She looked at my belly and said- Jake Daniel, you going to come out of my Mommy? Well. Be nice." That's my girl.

Almost a week to go and if another person asks are you ready? I might scream. Yes, I'm ready, but I don't know how I feel about sharing Jake Daniel with the rest of the world. (I also went through this with Maddie.) Yes, I know it is selfish- but right now he is all mine and I protect him. I also know once he arrives I will appreciate all the help from others.
Plus with some of the issues we had with JD- I want him to bake as long as he can.

New treat today, that I'm glad I just discovered. Rita's Italian Ice. Pure frozen flavored sugar. It was yummy. Luckily- I didn't like my flavor and Maddie didn't like hers. So, we switched and it was perfect. Daniel-on the other hand- gobbled his up, but did let me finish his lat few bites. I;m considering send Daniel out to get me one now.

Finished some last minute pampering- yesterday. It was nice to relax, unwind and get some things taken care of.

I am also counting down the days until I can have my first full drink. Beer, wine and bourbon- oh how I have missed you. Now, I'm not a big ole drunk or lush. But, I'm one of those people that really enjoys the takes of a good cocktail.

Until tomorrow- I'm done babbling.

We're in the single digits!!!!

9 days and counting until Jake Daniel will be here.



I'm not banking on him arriving early. For some reason Bessada Babies in my belly like the warmth of the oven.

But, he does want to come early- all we have to do- is pack my Beauty/Vanity Bag and and throw the stuff in the car.



We are pumped. Can't wait to hold, kiss and cuddle this little Sprout.



I have to say- Getting pregnant might not be an easy thing for me- but I am blessed with a pretty easy pregnancy. I have some how manged to go thru 2 pregnancy gaining less than 20 pounds each time( this time I am eating so much more, but I am also chasing around and keeping up witha 2 1/2 year old)- but end up with the HUGE belly that looks like it could pop at any moment.

Being 38 weeks pregnant- I am not miserable. I actually feel great and the only thing I;m having problems doing is bending down to pick up things (which I have Maddie do, if she is around, and I bribe her with jelly beans) Oh- I almost forgot- getting comfortable in bed. It might take me 45 minutes to get comfortable but once I find that one position (which changes every night) I'm as good as gold and out like a light.



I do want to eat all the time and I want sweets. Ice cream, cereal (which I;m eating right now), cookies, Little Debbies and fruit (any kind and flavor) Actually- right now Wendy's fries and a Frosty sound pretty good)

My 930pm craving are getting Daniel- I will crave pizza and Daniel thinks I should share with him. (I know with all these cravings- am I sure it is only 20lbs?)



I freaked Daniel out last night- I had to pee and when I finally figured out how to roll over- I said, "I don't think I;m going to make it" Daniel thought I meant to the hospital and I meant to the bathroom.



I';m going to try to blog at least once a day until JD comes just for shits and giggles. So, I can look back one day and laugh at myself.

Maddie, Daniel and Me

The Bessada household of 3 has been very chummy lately. Daniel and I have tried to treasure and enjoy every moment we have with just our little Maddie Cakes. I know we will still have time alone with Maddie but right now we don't have to share time.

(we are really excited about the new addition. but it is also a bittersweet time for us. plus, i'm pregnant and very hormonal. so back off)

The last few weeks we have tried to have family time and one-on-one alone time with Maddie. It hasn't been about spoiling her with gifts. Just precious time that can't be recreated. How do you explain to a 2 1/2 year old that her whole life is about to change? She knows she is getting a brother, but I don't think she understands he isn't leaving once he arrives.

Maddie has had me and Daniel in amazement in how much of a big girl she had become.

Her are some of our favorite Maddie moments.....

"Mommy, I;m going to work" "Where do you work?" "Target" Guess, we go there too much.
"Hey, I got a cutie bootie"
"I need to hear the BumbleBee song" Immabee- BlackEyed Peas
Looking at the proof of her class pic and naming all of her friends.
Saying the blessing at dinner- looking like Steve Wonder with the head motions.
Asking me if "JD is kicking the fire" out of me. (I made the comment once that he was kicking the fire out of me and she likes to ask me all the time)
Sudden outburst of complete laughter for no reason. Mad had the most contagious precious laugh.
She has certain books that Daddy can only read her and books that only Mommy can read.
Hearing her recreated the sound of the heart monitor when we go Mommy's doctor visits.


I could go on and on but will spare you all the reading.

Just wanted to share how we have been spending our time lately before Baby Boy graces us with his presence and to let Maddie know (when she is old enough to read Mommy's Blog) that we love her with all of our heart and can't wait to start the new chapter in our family's book.

Just a few random things to share- No rhyme or reason

Newest and latest cravings:

Little Debbie Oatmeal pies
Strawberries and pears
CryBaby bubble gum
freezing ice cold water
slice of pizza from Felini's (thank God it is right next to my Dr. and I can swing right in and out with no problem)
Oh- let me add Daniel's craving- Mc D's fries

Maddie-
We just had the talk about Mommy having Baby JD. She knows she is going to her Mamy's and is ok with that- but she was most concerned about Cookie. After I told her Cookie was going with her, her state of panic went away.
Just like her Daddy and a little like me. ..she has our form of OCD. Every night before she goes to bed, she picks out her outfit for the next day. Shirt, pants, shoes, socks, panties and even the hairbow. It is hilarious. Lord forbid I try to change something when she sleeping, she knows when she wakes up and I get the wrath of Miss Maddie.

Daniel-
is seriously calm about the new arrival. Which is so not like Daniel to stay with cool, calm and collected. We'll see once Baby JD gets here. The precious man has been so helpful to me. Taking Maddie so I can relax and have some alone time, cleaning up dinner so I can rest my feet and taking on extra household duties to give me a break. I hope he keeps this up.

Me- I'm huge, uncomfortable and starting to swell. Baby JD, I won't be mad if you decide to come early. Love Mommy

Pregnancy update............

Latest Cravings:

Fried Peach Pies from the Varsity
Fries
Diet Pepsi (I am so ashamed to admit this)
Apple- Red Delicious (These are not normally the apples I buy)
Chocolate anything
Spicy things, still. The hotter, the better.
Cereal- any kind, any time of the day.
Cucumber- I de-seed them, so I don't get gas.
Hummus (Sabra only)and Pita Bread
Chicken Biscuits
Massages (thank God, my place is affordable)

Aches and Pains-

My bum and the pressure. I think he is going to fall out of it. (Thank you ladies for reminding me to use the yoga ball. It has helped a ton)
My back- I cant' get comfortable for anything. I have to changes positions sleeping at night or a get a cramp in my back or I moan so loud it bothers Daniel.
Breathing is over-rated. I really don't mind feeling like I'm going to suffocate.
Constant moving- this kid is sooo active. He moves all the freaking time, except at meal time.

35 Days and Counting....................

We are officially ready for Jake Daniel's arrival. (even Maddie)

Nursery - done
Clothes washed- done
Diapers- done
Baby carseat, stroller, swing, bouncer ready- done and batteries in
Housecleaning scheduled- done
Plan for Maddie and a back-up plan for that- done
Babymoon planned and rescheduled and planned again- done
Bikini wax (they are not shaving me), mani/pedi, massage and hair cut/color (yes, I color my hair)- Also scheduled.

I can say the only think I haven't done is pack my bag. I have the must haves ready to go. Depending on when Baby JD decides to grace us with his presence depends on what I pack. Yes, I have 2 homecoming outfits picked out for myself. I want to look as presentable as possible.

Baby Jake Daniel has been scheduled to come out of my belly April 5th. I'm thinking he will want to come out before then.

I guess now we just wait...........